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  • Writer's pictureAnthony Alvarado

Thriving Through the Storm: A Journey of Redemption

Life's journey definitely has its fair share of unpredictable moments, a continuous interplay of messy moments, and unwavering clarity. Over the past decade, my travels across the country have provided a platform for sharing a story that's not about perfection but about progress, resilience, and the extraordinary wisdom gained from life's most difficult chapters.


Amidst the Mess: Picture this: later today, I'll be on my way to the hospital, brimming with indescribable anticipation, as my family eagerly prepares to welcome our newborn son. Becoming a father to a newborn, especially at the brink of turning forty, was something I had long abandoned. Especially after the loss of my first son, I had solemnly vowed never to tread that path again. But in its infinite capacity to surprise, life unfolds in ways we least expect.


Anticipating this new addition to our family, especially with the person I've shared numerous stages and chapters with, my now-fiancée, is nothing short of a marvel. Our professional collaboration has transformed our lives and left an indelible impact on many others. Through our joint efforts, we've witnessed the profound change and healing we've brought to the lives of countless individuals. Little did I anticipate that our shared endeavors would lead to such a remarkable personal milestone - welcoming a child into the world together.

The arrival of our upcoming addition brings a mix of excitement and natural anxiety as we anticipate unknown changes and their impact on our family's growth and healing. Considering the prospect of parenting again after my daughter's high school graduation is thrilling and a bit overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be daunting. Today is a testament to shedding old narratives, releasing those "I will never (insert here) again" to create space for new, unforeseen chapters that can lead to the most amazing change and growth. These events underscore the transformative power of embracing new beginnings after letting go.





However, within this very breath of celebration, we pause to reflect on our journey of healing and growth, which speaks volumes about the resilience of the human spirit. Various trials, including the profound loss of my first son, have shaped this narrative. This beautiful duality underscores life's remarkable capacity to intertwine profound joy with immense strength. It shows our resilience to learn and grow from life's toughest times. The balance between expecting new joy and remembering past trials proves our ability to survive and thrive in difficult moments.



The Power of Daily Practices: These daily rituals, though small, hold immense power in building resilience. They demand commitment and discipline but collectively transform mere existence into a truly lived life. Amid life's messes, these practices become our guiding anchors, ensuring our presence despite challenges. They symbolize our steadfast commitment, offering stability during the storms of life.


Chapter Two: Building Resilience - The Three Key Steps: In chapter two of "Untangling the Mess," I dive into the transformative steps necessary to fortify resilience in the face of life's messiness:

  • Aligning with Core Values is the initial step towards resilience. A mentor once remarked during my journey, "It sounds like you are in alignment again." These core values serve as a guiding light, defining what truly matters and what's worth fighting for. They've been an anchor during monumental setbacks, propelling me to persist and embrace even the smallest victories. Our core values aren't just ideals; they define what's truly important. In tough times, they fuel perseverance and highlight the importance of small wins.

  • Cultivating Supportive Relationships forms the second crucial step in navigating life's chaos. Resilience isn't forged in isolation but within the supportive embrace of those closest to us. While journeying through life's unpredictable twists, the challenges might not always appear appealing. However, sharing this journey with individuals who unconditionally love and accept us, chaos and all, brings an essential sense of hope during the darkest moments and magnifies the joy during the most celebratory times. These relationships aren't just sources of solace when darkness prevails; they also stand as pillars during the brightest moments. Human connections are pivotal in empowering our emotional well-being, creating a foundation for resilience to thrive.

  • Embracing Adversity and Extracting Wisdom from Loss marks the third pivotal step in our journey. It involves acknowledging setbacks and losses as profound lessons. Whether in personal battles or professional ventures, these obstacles are fertile grounds for growth. Throughout my 15-year recovery journey, I've encountered numerous relapses, each serving as a poignant learning opportunity, steering me toward the healthiest version of myself. In the business domain, the year 2020 presented a significant challenge as we temporarily closed our nonprofit due to the pandemic, shrouded in uncertainty about its future. However, realigning our company values with our personal ethos and surrounding ourselves with the right support proved transformative. We not only reopened but thrived. We are on the verge of opening a new youth community center, setting the stage for another decade of impact.


At the heart of our lives lies an undeniable truth - life's storms are inevitable, and our reaction to these challenges shapes our journey. By blending daily actions, embracing core values, fostering supportive relationships, and learning from setbacks, we cultivate resilience, empowering us to face life's challenges confidently.


Life's path might be complex, but it's not about reaching perfection as we journey through it. It's about finding clarity amid chaos and celebrating small triumphs and the BIG moments like today! Armed with these tools, we emerge stronger, wiser, and more resilient despite life's challenges.



In summary, our response to life's challenges shapes new narratives. Resilience stems from core values, supportive relationships, and learning from adversity. It's not about achieving perfection; it's an ongoing journey of progress and self-discovery amidst life's mess.


Ready to explore further? Check out more from 'Untangling the Mess' for valuable insights to empower your journey toward resilience and redemption. Uncover your strength within the mess.


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John Holzschuh
John Holzschuh
Nov 03, 2023

Congratulations to both of you! You certainly have impacted many.

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